Why Do Babies Cry: The Secret Language of Little Ones

Hey there, Marvelous Parents!

Ever caught in the crying storm and questioned,

“ Why on Earth is my child crying?”- well, you are not alone. It’s the sound every parent knows too well. Understanding those precious tears may feel like cracking a code, especially when you are new to parenting. Don’t worry, we have got your back with everything you need to know about why babies cry and how to decode those tiny tears and turn them into big smiles. Every cry tells a story, your baby’s story, and learning to listen is the first step in this magnificent journey of parenting.

Babies cannot talk, but they sure can communicate. Crying is how babies communicate; it’s their very first language in the early months. Crying is their expression of needs, be it for discomfort, hunger, or just wanting a tight hug. Their way to reach out to you for care and comfort. Over time, you’ll know the subtle differences in their cries.

WHY DO BABIES CRY? THE MOST COMMON REASON

Every tiny baby is unique, but here are some universal reasons why they are letting out those tears.

1. Hunger

Hunger is the classic cry, particularly in newborns. They have tiny tummies, which need frequent feeds, sometimes every 2 to 3 hours.

How to Recognize: The cries start soft and rhythmic, then become louder. This may be accompanied by smacking of lips, sucking motions, or rooting (turning their head to look for feed). If you are breastfeeding and worried about latching or supply, MyDvija Lactation support tools and class can guide and help you feed with ease.

2. Dirty Diaper

No one likes a wet or soiled diaper, and babies are no exception. If your baby is crying out of the blue, do a quick diaper check. The cry is to let you know it’s time for a diaper change. How to Recognize: The cry is fussy or irritated, often followed by wriggling. Tired of frequent diaper rash? Try our MyDvija diaper rash cream. Enriched with goodness of aloe vera to prevent diaper rash and promote healthy, moisturized skin for your baby.

3. Sleepy or OvertiredYou know it can be exhausting to look this adorable! When your tiny gets overtired, they often cry as they do not know how to fall asleep on their own. How to Recognize: The cue is yawning, rubbing of eyes, or staring blankly. The cries come in waves, often whiny. If you are having difficulty putting your little one to sleep or are troubled regarding their sleep pattern, don’t you worry, at MyDvija, we teach sleep training techniques and how to set a day routine, so that the baby can drift off to sleep peacefully.

4. Need for Closeness / Wants to be Held

Babies love to crave physical contact. They just want to be cuddled or held close. Skin-to-skin contact, your touch, voice, or smell can help soothe them. How to Recognize: A Fussy cry that calms down when you pick them up.

5. Tummy Trouble

Your tiny’s digestive juices are still learning the ropes. Colic, the need to burp or gas, can trigger crying. Post feeding, try tummy rubs, gentle burps, or just holding the baby upright. How to Recognize: Long stretches of cry often in the evening, hard to soothe, and pulling their legs up.Made with natural ingredients, we have a roll-on to relieve tummy troubles. Visit our page to know more.

6. Teething, Pain, or Illness

If these usual tricks are not working, then your baby seems to genuinely be in distress. How to Recognize: The cry is often accompanied by fever. There is lethargy, and an unusual cry tells of the baby. It is best to check in with your pediatrician.

When tears start, panic might kick in as well. So take a deep breath, read this up. Simple ways to calm your baby:

• Snuggle up and offer skin-to-skin contact. The closeness calms them and makes them feel safe.
• Check for feed or a clean diaper
• Rock or sway gently as movement reminds them of the womb.
• Try soft, soothing sounds, white noise, or offer a pacifier
• Burp them after every feed to prevent gas build-up and discomfort.
• Change the scenery – a walk outside works wonders

WHEN IS CRYING A CONCERN?

While crying is normal, call your baby’s doctor if:

• Fever spikes over 100.4°F
• Weak or raspy cries
• Vomiting or bloody stools
• Extreme lethargy, unusual skin color, or trouble breathing
• Persistent crying after all soothing attempts
•  You feel overwhelmed and unsure
• Always trust your instincts; you know your baby best. Never hesitate! Reach out for help.

SELF-CARE MATTERS TOO

Crying can feel overwhelming at times. During those times, take a deep breath and remember, you are not alone. Your baby is not giving you a hard time, but is having a hard time and needs your love and comfort. It’s completely okay to take a break, though. Make sure to keep your baby in a safe place for a few minutes while you collect yourself. Your mental health matters as much!

LITTLE TEARS, BIG LOVE

Your little one cries because it’s their way to say “ I Need You”, so listen, be patient, respond, and know that you will soon be fluent in your baby’s unique language. You’ll start to understand your little baby’s cues and gain confidence in responding to their needs. Every time you soothe them, you are building trust and love that lasts a lifetime.

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